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Shah Muhammad Suhail

Dua for love between husband and wife

Achieving love and satisfaction between husband and wife is the highest status of a believer. This brings peace to the world. Here is a dua and amal that will increase the love between husband and wife. Love is God’s creation. He has given love to every creature.

Dua for love between husband and wife

For love between husband and wife, in the following Dua, will recite 707 times for 7 days in a sweet foodstuff and feed it to whomever she wishes to compel. Inshallah good results will be obtained.

ومن آياته أن خلق لكم من أنفسكم أزواجا لتسكنوا إليها وجعل بينكم مودة ورحمة

Pronunciation: Wa min ayatihi inna khalakka lakum min anfusikum azwazan litaskunu ilaiha wa ja’ala baynakum muaddataon wa ramatan.

Dua to increase the love of husband and wife


لو أنفقت ما في الأرض جميعا ما ألفت بين قلوبهم ولكن الله ألف بينهم 

Pronunciation: Walaw anfaqta ma fil ardbi jami’am ma allafa baina qulubihim wala kinnallaha allafa bainahum innahu ‘Aziyun Hakimun.

Rule: Reciting the mentioned verse 7 times and blowing on sugar/mixed or sweet products and eating those sweet products by both husband and wife will create deep love between each other.

Dua of love between husband and wife in the Quran

Married life is based on mutual love and affection of husband and wife. Almighty Allah has highlighted this bond of love and happiness in the Quran.

Allah says:

One of His signs is that He created you from dust. Now you are people, spread over the earth. Another sign is that He has created for you your kinsmen from among yourselves, that you may be at peace with them, and He has created between you mutual harmony and kindness. Surely there are signs in it for those who think.’ (Surah Rum: Verses 20-21)

In family life, a mutual good relationship and love between husband and wife is very important. There are numerous proofs of this in the holy life of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam along with narrations in Quran and Hadith.

In married life, there is a touch of reward, welfare and love in common conduct. Which can be accepted and emulated as ideal for all people of the world. They are-
mutual love

  • The wives of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam loved him more than life itself. And one of the Sunnah or ideals of the beloved Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, is to love his wife.

It is mentioned in the hadith-
Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, “Wives and fragrances have been made dearest to me from among your worldly possessions.” And prayer has been made for me to cool the eyes.’ (Tabarani)

4 unfailing Islamic deeds to increase between the couple

  1. Verse 74 of Surah Furqan is a very effective prayer for increasing love between husband and wife.

Keep reciting this dua more and more on the last night, in prostration of every prayer, before salam, after adhan, during rain, after Friday Asr and any time while walking, getting up, sitting down.

This prayer should be recited from the bottom of the heart with meaning. Then Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala inshallah will increase the love between husband and wife.

  1. Doing what is pleasing to God, adopting piety, obeying God’s rules in everything. When Allah loves a servant, He creates love for him in the hearts of everyone in the heavens and the earth. As a result, they also love him. Always try to recite the following dua to get Allah’s love.

اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ حُبَّكَ وَحُبَّ مَنْ يُحِبُّكَ وَالْعَمَلَ الَّذِي يُبَلِّغُنِي حُبَّكَ اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ حُبَّكَ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ نَفْسِي وَمَالِي وَأَهْلِي وَمِنَ الْمَاءِ الْبَارِدِ

“O Allah! I seek your love from You and the love of those who love You and the love of deeds that will make you love them.” [Tirmidhi, Hadith No. 3828/3490]

  1. Greetings are a miraculous way to increase love. So husband and wife greet each other whenever they meet. Give more greetings.
    “When you enter houses, say salam to your relatives. This is a good and holy supplication from Allah. [24:61]

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Shall I not teach you something by which you will love one another? (That is) spread the salam widely among yourselves.” [Muslim]

  1. Always recite Istegfar and Darood. Try to read as much as possible.
Dua for love between husband and wife
Dua for love between husband and wife

Why do you need love?

People’s love motivates us to be better. So Islam instructs us to love. It has been said in several hadiths that one cannot be a believer until the love of Allah and His Messenger (PBUH) prevails above all else.

In another narration comes the command to love one another. But the love that is not benevolent, but rather unbeneficial, is mentioned in the Qur’an as an error.

If Islam prescribes any action, it also prescribes all the ways to perform it. Forbidden from something also provides all the means to survive from it.

Just as it has been instructed to get the love of Allah, so the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) also taught supplications to obtain the love of Allah and his loved ones. If you recite the prayer prescribed by the Prophet more and more, it will be good for Allah and the Prophet.

Sunnah guide to love between husband and wife in Quran

Mutual conversation

If the husband and wife speak nice words to each other during their married life, then according to the hadith, they have the reward of giving charity. It is mentioned in the hadith-

Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, “A good thing is charity.” (Bukhari)

Talking with a smile

If the husband and wife smile and talk to each other during their married life, then in terms of the hadith, it is also a reward for giving charity. It is mentioned in the hadith-

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, ‘Smiling (on meeting) your brother is a charity.’ (Tirmidhi)

Mutual pleasure

If husband and wife make each other happy in married life, it is considered as a good deed in the sight of Allah. It is mentioned in the hadith-
Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, ‘The most beloved deed to Allah is to bring joy into the heart of a Muslim.’

Mutual benefit

If the husband and wife do any favours or good deeds to each other during their married life, then they will get the reward of charity in return. And they will gain the status of being the best and dearest people to Allah by benefiting others.

It has been mentioned in several hadiths-

  • Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, ‘Every good deed is charity. And it is a good deed for you to meet your brother with a smile.’ (Tirmidhi)
  • ‘The best person is the one who benefits people the most.’ (Ibn Hibban)
  • ‘The most dear to Allah is the person who benefits the most people.’

Family expenses

In married life, husband and wife bear mutual expenses and put food in each other’s mouths. It is mentioned in the hadith- The beloved Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said:

“The best Sadaqah is for a man to put a piece of food in the mouth of his wife.” (Bukhari and Muslim)

Not only that, in another hadith ‘spending for the wife’s family is also called the reward of charity’ if it is spent with the intention of charity.’

Comply with restrictions

There are special rewards and benefits in following Allah’s restrictions in married life. If husband and wife command each other to do good deeds and forbid them from doing bad deeds, they will be rewarded for their good deeds. It is mentioned in the hadith- “Enjoining good deeds, preventing evil deeds is Sadaqah.” (Muslim)

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