Dua for someone to love you | Best way and effective practice

Shah Muhammad Suhail

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Dua for someone to love you

If you want someone to love you, you can show him that he is the dearest to you by your behaviour. Make dua with that. Then you will be his love.

We all want people to love us and have a reasonable opinion. But many people do not get it even if they want it. Because to get someone’s love, you have to follow some rules and make dua. Do any Dua for someone to love you? This is what I am discussing in this post.

Dua for someone to love you

Dua, for someone to love you, is to recite Allah’s glorified name, “Al-Qayyum,” more and more. The Prophet, may God bless and grant him peace, said in the hadith, “Allah has 99 names of attributes. The person who recites these adjective names will go to heaven.’

There are different virtues and benefits of dhikr of these Attributes of Allah Ta’ala daily.

Al-Qayyum is one of the Attributed Names (اَلْقَيُّوْمُ) of Allah Ta’ala. You can make this dua to get someone’s love. Along with this, it is also an effective practice for getting any work done.

The process of getting someone to love you

When you recite Allah’s Attributed Name (اَلْقَيُّوْمُ) ‘Al-Qayyum’ you will notice unimaginable results. You will see that the person who you never imagined to be loved by will also start loving you.

Pronunciation: ‘Al-Qayyum’

Meaning: ‘He Who Himself is eternal and the founder of creation.’

The person who recites the Holy Name of Allah (اَلْقَيُّوْمُ) ‘Al-Qayyum’ on the last night at a high rate, people start loving that person.

A person who recites Allah’s Most Holy Name (اَلْقَيُّوْمُ) more than ‘Al-Qayyum,’ all his deeds will be according to his will.

May Allah Ta’ala grant all the people of the Muslim Ummah the blessings of His glorious name. Grant me guidance to live according to the Qur’an and Sunnah. Attributed name of Allah Ta’ala (اَلْقَيُّوْمُ) Al Qayyumu’s particular virtue is to gain people’s love and to act according to heart.

Being aloof from the world: When you are unfriendly, people will love you; this is an eternal saying. On the authority of Sahl bin Saad (R.A.), a man came to the Prophet (PBUH) and said, O Messenger of Allah! Tell me about a deed in which All will love me, and people will love me if I do it. Rasulullah (s.a.w.) said you adopt non-attachment to the world. Then Allah will love you.

6 Islamic ways for someone to love you

Being worldly

People will indeed love you when you are detached from the world. Sahl bin Saad (R.A.) narrates,

A person came to the Prophet (PBUH) and said, O Messenger of Allah! Tell me about a deed in which Allah will love me, and people will love me if I do it. Rasulullah (s.a.w.) said you adopt non-attachment to the world. Then Allah will love you.

If you become unattached to what people have, they will love you too. (At-Targhib wat-Tarhib, Hadith: 3213)

Considering the human condition

If you are a leader or a top person in society, you must pay attention to all the small and big things to get people’s love because people’s mental state is not unchanged. Prosperity-poorness, health-illness, and such situations affect people deeply.

Abu Masud (ra) said, a companion came and said, O Messenger of God, by God! I miss the Fajr prayer because of such and such. He makes the prayer (in congregation) very long.

Abu Mas’ud (R.A.) said, “I have never seen the Messenger of God (PBUH) become so angry as on that day while admonishing him.” He said, There are haters among you.

Whoever among you prays with others, let him shorten it. Because among them, there are weak, old, and busy people. (Sahih Bukhari, Hadith: 702)


They are greeting everyone, big and small, and spreading greetings. By this, people will start loving you and greeting everyone, known and unknown. Welcoming only among acquaintances is a sign of doomsday.

Abu Huraira (R.A.) narrated that the Prophet (S.A.W.) said, No one will enter Paradise except a believer, and you cannot be believers unless you love one another.

Shall I not tell you what to do to create mutual love between you? That is, you will exchange more greetings. (Sahih Muslim, Hadith: 98)

Give gifts to each other

Dua for someone to love you

Giving gifts to each other is a recognized means of love and affection. Because Hadiya dispels evil thoughts towards someone and sows seeds of love in the heart, don’t hesitate to give even a small thing for this.

Narrated by Abu Huraira (R.A.). The Prophet (peace be upon him) said exchange gifts with each other, and your mutual love will be created. (Al-Adabul Mufarad, Hadith: 594)

to be polite

Modesty is a quality that can attract people’s love. For a humble person, Allah Almighty pours love to people because the value of modesty is very high with Allah.

Alaa Ibn Abdur Rahman (R.A.) narrated: Giving charity in the way of Allah does not reduce wealth. Honour is increased by forgiveness, and Allah raises the status of the humble. (Mu’atta Imam Malek, Hadith: 1826)

Being soft-spoken: Softness of speech, giving advice differently, has a different effect. This beautiful technique of correcting others has a mutual bond, so there is no shortage of love between them.

And if the advice is given in a dull manner or harsh language, its effect will be different. For this, to take a place in people’s minds with your beautiful words.

Allah Ta’ala says, ‘By the mercy of Allah, you were tender-hearted towards them; if you had been harsh and hard-hearted, they would have turned away from you.

So forgive them, ask forgiveness for them, consult them in matters, then rely on Allah when you decide. Indeed, Allah loves those who trust (Him). (Surah: Ale Imran, verse: 159)

Evaluating others

It is human nature to expect appreciation and respect from others. When you value others, they will love and appreciate you. This hadith of the beloved Prophet points us in this direction.

Abu Rifaa (R.A.) said he was giving a sermon when I reached the Prophet (PBUH). I said, O Messenger of God! A stranger comes to ask about his Dwin.

The narrator says, then a chair was brought. … The Prophet (pbuh) sat on it and began to teach me what Allah had taught him, then came and finished the rest of his sermon. (Sahih Muslim, Hadith: 1910)

Talking with a smile

Always smiling is the way to get people’s love. It will have the same effect if you always meet everyone with a blank face. And if you meet people with a smile, then you will be able to get a place.

There are numerous such narrations in the life of the Prophet (PBUH). Jarir (R.A.) said, “Since I accepted Islam, Allah’s Messenger (PBUH) did not prevent me from entering him, and he used to smile whenever he looked at my face.” (Sahih Bukhari, Hadith: 3035)

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